My boyfriend broke up with me, and apparently it is my fault??!!?
Posted by admin | Posted in Cartier Pens | Posted on 29-07-2010-05-2008
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Okay, so for Valentine’s Day (which is also our 3rd year anniversary),
I got my boyfriend a pair of Cartier diamond studs, $500 gift card to Harry Rosen, a Marc Jacobs briefcase, and a Chanel leather watchband. Since it was a very special day, I thought I should give him more gifts than I did for his birthdays or for Christmases.
I won’t lie, I come from a very very wealthy family, and I like to spoil those I love, and I thought my boyfriend would be happy, too.
But every holiday, he would beg me not to spend so much on gifts, and he said being with me was enough. Usually, I settled with something like a fountain pen, perfume, coat, etc, something small,
but I really wanted to give him something bigger since it was our 3rd year anniversary, AS WELL AS our 3rd Valentine’s together.
Now, don’t get me wrong, I have never never ever ever asked him for anything in return.
When I give gifts, I do so for the love of giving gifts, not to get something back in return.
I told him, a loving hug would be enough for me, because I know he loves me as much as I love him.
So, I told my friend what I got my boyfriend for Valentines and 3rd year anniversary,
she almost screamed because I spent so much. (I spent roughly $20,000)
Then, she told her friend, who told her friend, who told my boyfriend’s best friend, who told my boy friend.
And then he called me saying he could not accept those gifts because he couldn’t give that much back to me. I told him he didnt have to.
But he said he will never ever accept those gifts, and then I told him I wanted to give those gifts to him. Then he argued that he was not dating me for money, and i told him I knew he was not dating me for money.
And then after about an hour of a very heated argument…
He told me he could no longer see me.
I don’t understand, I did not ask for anything in return….
All my friends are saying it is my fault… WHY?!
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wow if anyone spent 20000 dollars on me i would feel so embarrassed!
maybe the fact that you one-up him every chance you get tells you something? maybe he wanted to buy you a nice pair of earrings, but decided not to becuase you bought something that cost you 20 times the amount of the earrings? maybe you should stop showing off and grow up. just because you have money doesnt mean you should use it.
it IS your fault. stop showing off and give your BF some credit. now no matter what he does to please you, you wont like it because you expect a bently and horse drawn carriage to take you to your valentines dinner.
Well, you’re loving him in your own way. It’s YOUR way to love someone. But it’s not what he wants.
I understand you’re not asking for anything in return. But still, normally people would think that they should give the same thing back. Also, think about this, when his friends see this, what will they think? People will think that he’s with you for money.
If he really doesn’t want that, you should really think of some other way to show him that you love him instead of buying him all these stuff.
because you let it be known that you spent that much, guys are very proud,just tell him you understand now.maybe he thinks that he will never be able to live up to your standards, so you are really scaring him away. i am just a poor single mother so i wouldnt know what its like to spend that much money.you are a lucky person to have money,dont show it in front of guys because they will be intimidated or take advantage of you.I think you will be able to get your guy back.At least you dont have bills you cant pay.
You are giving stuff to the wrong person.
Give all of them to me. I will give you a hug and not whine about it. I will even encourage you to do more.
I will even top up the hug with a bonus on a night out.
So am here waiting.
http://getboyfriendback.lovez.it THIS! Why didnt i think of this one before it was too late, its helped me later in life but i think i still lost my love of my life cause i didnt act sooner.